Tactic 01
Logan Ury, Modern Wisdom
Chase The Slow Burn Instead Of The Spark
The play
Give a no-spark match three to four dates before ruling them out, since only 11 percent of people feel love at first sight anyway.
Logan Ury says
Only 11 percent of people experience love at first sight, so the spark is rare, not the standard. My advice is to go after the slow burn, someone who doesn't spark on date one but grows on you the more you see them.
Try this
Give a slow-burn match several more dates instead of screening them out for lacking an instant spark.