Jocko Willink, Huberman Lab
Step Off The Line To See The Whole Scene
When tense, step back, lift your chin, drop your hands, and breathe before speaking.
Jocko Willink says
When a conversation or conflict heats up, Jocko pushes his chair back away from the table. He lifts his chin up and puts his hands down. He takes a step back, takes a breath, broadens his field of view, detaches from those emotions, and makes some space before making a decision. It is very hard to be detached when talking.
Try this
Next time a conversation heats up, push back, lift your chin, put your hands down, stop talking, and take one breath before responding.
