Getting experience with women

Two levels of self-improvement, why money makes dating worse, and the one type of man who ever sees women clearly.

With Hamza

"The men who see the real truth in women are not the husbands, they're not the boyfriends, they're not even the fathers. It's the fuckboys." — Hamza

Hamza, on the episode

This is a solo video from Hamza, a self-improvement creator whose audience skews young and male. The pop framing around this topic is that discipline means cutting out girls and grinding on money first. Hamza's actual argument is the opposite: social and dating competence is a foundational skill with a narrow acquisition window, and trying to skip it produces a specific, predictable failure mode he has watched play out in person. The video draws on his own progression from 17 to his mid-twenties, conversations with successful men who never built dating experience, and years of coaching through his programs Library of Adonis and a second money-focused tier. His core claim is that the order matters more than the goal.