Dr. Sam Harris, Huberman Lab
Look for the One Who Is Looking
Stop aiming attention at an object and look directly for the one doing the looking.
Dr. Sam Harris says
Meditation instruction typically sets up a subject paying attention to an object like the breath or sounds. The real practice is to keep looking for the mind, the center of experience, the one who is looking, as a direct inspection rather than a concept. There is no place from which attention is being aimed, and the sense of being the one doing the attending is itself just unexamined thought. Like a search party formed in error looking for a tourist who turns out to be the one missing, the problem evaporates rather than being solved.
Try this
Sit quietly, pick an object of attention, then turn the search around and try to locate the one who is watching, as a direct looking rather than a concept.
