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Dr. Gabor Maté: Trauma, Addiction, Ayahuasca, and More

8 tactics for understanding pain instead of fighting its symptoms. The core idea most people get backwards: the addiction, the rage, the numbing are not the problem, they are someone's attempt to solve one.

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With Gabor Maté

"Addiction is not the primary problem, it's an attempt to solve a problem." — Dr. Gabor Maté
Gabor Maté, on the episode

Maté is a physician who spent twelve years working with addiction in Vancouver's Downtown Eastside, alongside decades in family medicine and palliative care. The pop framing of his work is "trauma talk." The actual operating system underneath is a clinical model: behaviors people hate in themselves, the addictions, the rage, the tuning out, all began as coping mechanisms that worked when the person was young and powerless, then got programmed in and kept running long after they stopped helping. This protocol pulls the specific reframes and practices he uses to move someone from self-condemnation to self-connection.

Tactic 01

Gabor Maté, The Tim Ferriss Show

Ask Why The Pain, Not Why The Addiction

The play

Ask what relief a behavior gives instead of why it happens.

Gabor Maté says

Instead of asking why the addiction, the question becomes why the pain. When people are asked what the addiction does for them, they describe it as something that numbs, soothes the pain, makes them feel connected with others, gives a sense of control, or gives inner peace. Asking why the pain instead of why the addiction leads to an examination of that person's life rather than looking just at their brain chemistry.

Try this

For one disliked behavior, ask yourself what relief it gives you instead of asking why you keep doing it.

Tactic 02

Run A Compassionate Inquiry Instead Of A Self-Verdict

Gabor Maté says

Why did I do this can be a statement, a self condemnation, or it can be asked as a genuine question. It is…

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Tactic 03

Thank The Stupid Friend, Then Let It Go

Tactic 04

Separate The Trauma From The Thing That Happened

Tactic 05

Find Where You Traded Authenticity For Attachment

Tactic 06

Catch The Worst Interpretation, Then Find Its Source

Tactic 07

Set An Intention, Not An Expectation

Tactic 08

Rebuild The Connection Through Your Body

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